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Introduction: Sex Life Of Your Dreams |
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From Dream To Reality |
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About The Authors |
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How We Can Help You |
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So What Exactly Is Swinging? |
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Why We Want To Help You |
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Reader’s Notes |
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| PART I: IT’ S ALL ABOUT YOU |
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Getting It Straight: Know What You Want And Why |
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First Things First |
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What Do You Want? |
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Why Do You Want It? |
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What You Want Is Perfectly Normal |
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Be OK With What You Want |
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Asking God About Sex |
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Benefits Of Swinging |
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| PART II : IT’S ALL ABOUT HER |
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Women And Sex: Her Sexual Appetite |
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Her Sexual Appetite |
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Here Is The Proof |
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Her Sexual Fantasies: Yes She Really Has Them |
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No More Wondering |
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Sharing Her Fantasies |
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Most Common Fantasies |
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Changing Her Old Programming: Helping Her To Open Up |
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Successful Tools |
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Baby Steps:
The Key To Unlocking Her Inner Sex Goddess |
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Level 1 – Making Her Feel Loved, Adored & Appreciated |
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Level 2 – Igniting The Fires Of Passion |
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Level 3 – Unleashing Her Inner Sex Goddess |
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Opening The Door To Sexual Adventure |
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Expanding Her Horizons |
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The Moment Has Arrived: Getting Ready To Ask |
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Using The Four Approaches |
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You Finally Asked: Her Reactions And Fears |
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Typical First Reactions
Specific Fears |
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| PART III: READY FOR ACTION |
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Sex In Swinging: Choosing Your Comfort Level |
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Types of Swinging |
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Choice Of Style |
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Swinger’s Principles |
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Determining Your Comfort Level |
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Ready To Explore: How To Find And Meet Others |
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Hooking Up |
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Swinger Clubs |
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Private Swinger House Parties |
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Internet Adult Dating |
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Clothing Optional Resorts |
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Before You Head Out:
Preparing For A Successful Experience |
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Preparing For Success |
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Setting Rules To Swing By |
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Ground Rule Questions |
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Be Prepared For Change |
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Your Swinger’s Action Pack |
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Swing With Confidence |
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The Hunt Is On: Capturing You Sexual Prey |
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The 3 Secrets Of Hunting |
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The Flirting Game |
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Reject Rejection |
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Let The Games Begin: The Big Event |
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Last Minute Details |
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No Thank You |
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Friends Without Benefits |
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Discussing Boundaries |
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Don’t Forget To Breathe |
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Behavior During Swinging |
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Ending The Evening |
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The Day After |
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It Really Happened: Evaluating Your Experience |
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Do We Move Ahead Or Slow Down? |
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Dealing With Jealousy |
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Resolving Jealousy |
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Preventing Jealousy |
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| PART IV: APPENDIX |
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Mission Accomplished: Success Stories |
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Resources |
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Language Of Swinging: Definitions And Terms |
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